Friday, February 6, 2009

I Love Masturbating And It’s Good For You



As a woman, masturbation feels so good; can it also be good for me? The answer, of course… is a resounding ‘Yes’!

The old, false beliefs, that masturbation makes you blind, mad, insensitive, insane or lethargic; need to be replaced with these truthful pluses about masturbation. Masturbation is good for you; it makes your skin great and benefits your overall health. It improves your circulation, boosts your immune system and slaps a big smile on your face. It can be a wonderful way to unwind and relax and release stored-up tension. It’s also the safest form of sex; you can’t get pregnant from it. LOL

With masturbation we can, as women… express love for ourselves. If a part of yourself recoils at the thought of loving yourself, because it’s considered bad in some way; realize that you can’t love anybody else until you have learned to love yourself first (how can you if you’ve never experienced what it feels like). How can you tell your lover… man or especially another woman what feels best to you if you haven’t done it to yourself yet?

Now, ask yourself why is it okay to love other people, but not yourself? It’s simply silly to think you can’t love yourself. Because by doing so… you can show your lover how to love you the way you desire. I know, because I sure talk to my female lover about what feels good to me and I want to know what feels good to her as well. So, if we didn’t begin with masturbation, how could we do that? We couldn’t, and that would be a dreadful shame. Fortunately, my lover tells me about herself and I do the same with her and guess what… we both masturbate all the time thinking about one another and that’s so good and healthy for us both mentally and physically! We’re not caught in that trap that thinks self-loving is wrong.

Masturbation raises our self-esteem, by allowing us to explore and accept our bodies and how we relate to our lovers. Self-esteem is essential to happiness and self-fulfillment and while it’s not the focus of this blog, I’m positive masturbation has a nurturing part to play in building the self-esteem of anyone.

So, now you know. Masturbation not only feels good; it’s also good for us. Let’s all masturbate more. My girlfriend and lover, Carmen Hollywood and I sure are doing our part every day to be healthier and happier… you should be too!! Kisses… and happy masturbating!!!

Khristy
xoxo

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